Text and illustration by Leslie Watkins

When we think of gardens we think of plants, shrubs, trees, etc., but that’s just the beginning.  What we’re really doing is setting the stage for what’s to come. When the stage is set, the actors enter: insects, birds and animals move in, filling the garden with life, music and fluttering color. Our pets and friends join us in the garden, and we spend much time walking, looking and breathing in the various fragrances throughout the seasons. The mature garden reflects the life of its creator; the way we move through the space, our interests, what we choose to surround ourselves with, how we like to spend our time, what we like to look at and with whom we want to share our special place. As time passes, the garden evolves along with us. Plants come and go; trees and shrubs grow taller and fuller, altering the light and creating shady spots to enjoy on warm days. 

Our pets enjoy the garden, too, roaming around and keeping us company as we work. Inevitably the day comes when we have to say our final good-bye to our beloved companions. Burying them in a special spot in the garden allows us to honor and remember them, and to feel that they are still close to us. As a professional gardener and a chicken keeper, many of my plants have the benefit of the remains of a chicken under them, and that makes me happy. But now I have to face the sadness of losing an ill, aging, beloved dog and the decision of where to bury him when the time comes. Choosing a spot is not as simple as you might think.

There are precautions to take to ensure that the remains don’t pose a risk to other animals. If your pet is euthanized with pentobarbital and another animal gets hold of the remains, it could kill them, too. Likewise, if the animal died of a transmittable disease, the disease could be passed on. In these cases you may want to consider cremation. It’s important to bury your pet at least three to five feet deep to prevent them from being dug up. The grave should be away from flood zones and water sources. Be aware of the locations of gas and water lines before you dig. When you have your spot, dig deeply and sprinkle a cup of lime powder at the bottom of grave and then again on top of the body. Cover with two to three feet of soil and place heavy stones on top as both a marker and to discourage digging.

A good friend of mine tells me he has seven beloved dogs buried on his property. His sage advice: fill the hole in your heart with another dog, even though you’re so sad and feel like you never want to go through the grief again. He says to remember they had a good home with you, were well cared for and happy, so please share that love with another dog. Your departed dog will not be offended.

October Chores

• Cut the lawn low
• Cut back perennials
• Finish planting bulbs
• Turn the compost
• Keep watering
• Rake and compost leaves
• Plant trees and shrubs
• Bring in pots
• Clean up beds
• Add mulch